If you’re getting into any form of BDSM, you’ll need to learn proper aftercare. Here are the basics and a list of suggestions
WHAT IS AFTERCARE?
In short, it’s a fancy way of saying that everyone is okay and happy after playing around in BDSM.
It’s also gently bringing someone back to reality (from the fantasy of play) and helping them feel grounded again and/or re-establishing the normal, loving roles you would normally assume (if you’re in a relationship).
But, there’s a lot to aftercare that many new players might not realize – including special attention to physical and mental or emotional needs.
It’s also important when dealing with physical injuries or “drop”.
WHAT IS SUB/DOM DROP?
When you’re playing around in BDSM, there are often spikes of endorphins and adrenaline (especially if you’re doing something intense). When you crash from this …